Relationship Glue Recipe, Make Time Together Don't Just Wait for It

In the Shel Silverstein poem "Zebra Question" the child asks "are you black with white stripes or white with black?" And the zebra asks "are you good with naughty times or naughty with good?" That's a key question for marriages. Is it good with bad times or bad with good? Unlike the zebra's stripes, the order matters.   Relationship Glue Recipe, Make Time Do Not Just Wait for It